If
you are on a college campus, the usual way to learn a lot about someone
quickly is to ask, "Where are you from, and what's your major?" Outside
of an academic setting, those questions don't quite make sense. It's
tough enough making new friends as an adult, much less getting to know a
potential romantic partner. In business relations, too, it's essential
to learn all you can about the people you deal with. If you ask the
right questions, you can spark a conversation that really gets to the
heart of what the other person is all about.
Many of
these questions are deceptively revelatory, such as “who or where would
you haunt if you were a ghost?” It may seem like harmless fun, but this
question might reveal if your conversation partner has a sentimental or a
vengeful streak, for example. The best part is that asking just one of
these questions can open and carry an interesting conversation that will
leave you far better acquainted with a new contact than everyday small
talk.
One question might work, but in
this list at Gentlemen's Gazette, there are 53 to select from, so you can pick and choose what might work in a given situation.