From Occupy Democrats
by Lisa Longo
Sometimes our children do amazing things. And we all
like to brag about their amazing feats of agility, strength and
intelligence. But sometimes you come across a parent who likes to
complain instead of brag. We've all met them, the drama queens who love
to tell you every misery and mistake their child makes. The tall tale
tellers who say they don't want to create "more" drama, and then carry
on with their melodramatic musings and pedantic pronouncements.
These
parents take great pleasure in sharing their "misfortune" and seem to
create circumstances that put their children in the worst possible
light, but puts them in the spotlight. There is even a name for it,
Munchausen Syndrome by proxy.
According to Wikipedia:
Münchausen syndrome by proxy(MSbP or MBP) is a controversial term that
is used to describe a behavior pattern in which a caregiver deliberately
exaggerates, fabricates, and/or induces physical, psychological,
behavioral, and/or mental health problems in those who are in their care
We've
been friends with such a parent. And it isn't easy. The constant
catastrophes. The continual complaints and contrived circumstances that
always end in this parent being "misunderstood". The doctors who don't
get it. The hospital staff that won't agree with her diagnosis. The
therapists who give bad advice. It is hard to watch. We've had our
concerns and tried to help, but you can't help someone who is hell-bent
on being the producer, director and star of their own scary movie. They
simply don't want the help. It dims their spotlight.
But I've
come to the conclusion that this syndrome is actually a national
problem. And the biggest victims are a few repugicans in the House and
the wingnut hate speakers on Faux and talk radio. Yes indeed,
the repugican cabal seems to have a bad case of "deliberately
exaggerating, fabricating and inducing physical, psychological,
behavioral and/or mental health problems in those who are in their
care."
Now, the House Democrats aren't totally pure and
blame-free, and there are one or two liberal commentators that lean
pretty far left to make their point, and they've got their own issues,
mostly along the lines of what I think of as premature effectiveness.
They have great ideas, but they so often just can't hold out long enough
to get the job done.
There is a huge difference between telling
supporters to go out and buy guns and ammo, stockpile food, water and
gold, and telling them to go write a letter to your Congressperson or
to make a call to your Senator.
That is the difference between
conservative and liberal commentators. The barking Brick, vocal vomit
spewing Dimbulb and hateful Hand-job tell listeners they have to bear
arms because the "time is coming" when citizens will have to "defend
themselves" from their own government. And yes, that is exactly what is
said every day from 9am until 6pm on wingnut hate talk radio.
I know because I force myself to listen to their drivel. I consider it self-defense.
And
just like the children of parents with Munchausen Syndrome by proxy,
the followers of these dogmatic drama queens suffer the consequences.
They believe what they hear is true, and then they act based upon the
delusional drama they are fed constantly.
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