Stranahan said he had previously thrown Abbott out of his place.
Abbott told Fernandez-Ely it was a misunderstanding; Stranahan said
Abbott took some of Stranahan’s possessions.
“I was pretty clear that Mr. Abbott was not to go there,” the judge
said.
Fernandez-Ely asked Stranahan, 75, if he wanted to modify the protection
order so that the two can undergo mediation to patch up their
differences. Stranahan declined.
“I want it to remain in place because I don’t feel safe about being in
close proximity to Charles Abbott,” Stranahan said.
Stranahan said he was out of town on Saturday when Abbott’s friend, Eric
Nilan, called to ask if he could collect some of Abbott’s possessions.
Nilan, who recently was released from jail after being sentenced to four
years of supervision for felony stalking, asked Stranahan if Abbott
could join him, Stranahan told the judge.
“I said Mr. Abbott cannot go to my house because of a little piece of paper (the protection order),” Stranahan said. But at 8:30 that night, Stranahan received a call from Pitkin County Sheriff’s Deputy Adam Crider, who said Abbott was in his house. “He asked if that was OK, and I said it was not OK,” Stranahan said. He added, “I think it would have been OK if Eric had gone by and got what he needed, but he didn’t do that, and I feel a violation of trust. So there you have it - I don’t know what to do.” Stranahan also said he doesn’t want Nilan to be involved as a conduit between him and Abbott anymore. “I think it puts undue pressure on Mr. Nilan,” he said. Abbott had hoped the Rev. Nicholas Vesey of Aspen Chapel could bring the two estranged friends together. Vesey told the judge he knows both men and that they attend his church.
“To me, it’s tragic to see them at odds with each other,” he said.
Vesey said he normally doesn’t get involved in domestic disputes but
that Abbott had asked for his help.
Even though a protection order is in place, Abbott can still attend
church when Stranahan is there. But he isn’t allowed to have any contact
with him, the judge said.
After Abbott learned that Stranahan didn’t want to make up, he accused
his ex-friend of numerous misdealings. He also alleged Stranahan was wearing his L.L. Bean flannel shirt.
“I’d like to point out that Mr. Stranahan is wearing one of my shirts,
the blue one,” he told the judge. “That is not his shirt; that is mine.”
Fernandez-Ely told Abbott his remarks were out of scope with the hearing
and that if Abbott wants to retrieve his belongings from Stranahan’s
home, he needs to make sure there’s a deputy on the scene.
“I said Mr. Abbott cannot go to my house because of a little piece of paper (the protection order),” Stranahan said. But at 8:30 that night, Stranahan received a call from Pitkin County Sheriff’s Deputy Adam Crider, who said Abbott was in his house. “He asked if that was OK, and I said it was not OK,” Stranahan said. He added, “I think it would have been OK if Eric had gone by and got what he needed, but he didn’t do that, and I feel a violation of trust. So there you have it - I don’t know what to do.” Stranahan also said he doesn’t want Nilan to be involved as a conduit between him and Abbott anymore. “I think it puts undue pressure on Mr. Nilan,” he said. Abbott had hoped the Rev. Nicholas Vesey of Aspen Chapel could bring the two estranged friends together. Vesey told the judge he knows both men and that they attend his church.
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